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Jeff Russell ([personal profile] jprussell) wrote2023-04-09 08:54 pm
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[Main Blog Post] Narcissism and Me

(The title's a joke, btw).

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[personal profile] causticus 2023-04-11 01:55 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh yeah I agree there's definitely a lot of variables at play here, like generational subculture, one's culture in general, economic conditions, family structure, genetics, karma, ect.

JMG's example is great. I think it dials into a very specially special American flavor of narcissism, based on the idea we can "manifest" our own desired reality just by wishing for the right things; they'll come to you.....well, just because....you deserve the best! (regardless of what you bring to the table). I think one big factor that amplifies narcissism in America is the hyper-individualistic, atomized living arrangement that is now standard here. In more communitarian and authoritarian cultures, the individual isn't so important; it's their function in the group that matters; thus there's considerably less of a pressure for each individual to pretend as if they are their own king or queen, much less act like one in mixed company. I think a clear social hierarchy can greatly mitigate induvial narcissism and humble people in general. Just some random thoughts here...